On
the 3:rd of Mars in 1944 I was
born in Gothenburg and since
then I have lived here or as now,
twenty km outside. I love
my house and I am not the
type that likes to move around.
My parents were
Peter Anker Dickson, of
Scottish and Norwegian
background and
Ivy, born Lamm, a Jewish
family.
When
I was one year old my
grandfather, Robert Dickson,
died and we inherited two
connecting apartments in the
inner part of Gothenburg.
Pretty soon after one of them
was converted to my fathers
office, Dickson & Ahlmo, and he
got very close to his work. I do
not remember much from my
childhood, but if I have been
correctly informed, the first
four years were pretty normal.
On the 26:th of Mars in 1948 my
little sister Diana was born, a
very charming person, who has
taken everybody by storm her
whole life. Unfortunately she
has lived the major part of her
grown up life in Stockholm and
we have lost some of the close
contact we used to have as
children. We had another three
fine years with daddy and mummy.
In our home there also were two
older half brothers,
Robert and Clarence, but
they were only at home during
holidays and they were born -29
and -30, so the difference in
age was pretty large.
When
I was seven years old, both my
parents
remarried
mainly due to the fact, that my
father was seriously ill and
soon after that I hade a new
little half sister, Charlotte
Jenssen,
Lotti. In those days
children were shared in another
way than what you do today, so I
lived with my mother and my new
stepfather during the terms and
mostly with my father during
holidays. I also was big enough
to go and visit my father myself
so right then the divorce was
not something negative to me. In
1952 the year after Lotti was
born, we had a little brother,
Michael. I remember when we
were told at 07.30 PM after we
had been put to bed. Diana and I
were so happy that we jumped up
and down in our beds shouting,
“We have a little brother, we
have a little brother”.
In
1956 my father died and I was
devastated. The grief was so
large that I literary still feel
it. He was the warmest most
wonderful person that ever lived
on this earth. Everybody loved
my father from employees to us
children.
At school I was never any
exemplary pupil, calm but at the
start a slow learner and then
when I finally learned to
read, I passed every other pupil
and read an extra bookshelf on
top of that. Or at the high
school at a physics trial where
we, “the mortal pupils”, were
given five questions out of
seven and needed three correct
answers minimum to pass and the
last two questions were meant to
be solved only by the extra
smart pupils. Guess what two
questions I solved and only
those two. How do you grade a
pupil like that? This is the
story of my life and has made me
pretty difficult to evaluate.
After a zealous firm Lutheran
upbringing I entered my grownup
life with absolutely no self
confidence and lousy school
grades. In those days you were
of age at 21 and many moved from
home at that age. After trying
mathematics at the university I
re-entered high school and
graduated as an engineer 4 years
after my first graduation. This
time I had very high grades with
an A in mathematics, not very
strange considering I had read
it all before. I first worked as
a laboratory assistant and later
as an engineer. One of my
favourite work was as an oil
laboratory head down in the oil
harbour. It does not sound very
attractive, which only shows how
difficult it is to say what
would be. Since the oil
laboratory closed down in 1992 I
have alternately worked as a
computer teacher and alternately
have had no work at all. Because
I love to teach and I love
computers so it really is a
shame that I get less and less
work just because of my age. We
live in a strange society were
the elite is just thrown away.
At
the end of the 60:ths I was
still unbalanced and my future
to be gave me a cat as a
present. This turned my life
around. Since then my cats have
always helped me throw the ups
and downs of life and I still
have four cats. For almost
twenty five years I was
intensively involved in all
parts of the Cat Fancy. Mostly
interesting I found breeding
issues, planning, evaluating
results etc. Extremely difficult
as always, when nature is
involved, but stimulating. About
some of this you can read here:
www.pirotcattery.se/catintro/catintro.htm
There is also an article about
me more specifically from a Cat
Fancy point of view, but since
it is not written by me, it has
not been translated into
English.
www.pirotcattery.se/ingrid-wahlborn/ingrid-wahlborn.htm
I
also have had other hobbies such
as photography. I got my first
camera when I was ten years old.
I will never forget it, it was a
brown Kodak camera. We always
got our “Best Christmas present”
as the last present on Christmas
Eve (in Sweden the present are
given on Christmas Eve) and
usually it was something nice to
wear when being dress up. But
this year I got the camera. I
remember sitting dead quiet for
a whole hour in a much too big
and slippery silk chair with
tears silently running down my
cheeks. For many years my
husband and I travelled cheaply
and primitively but with an
exclusive Nikon camera
equipment.
Today I have 18 000 sorted
slides in the basement and I
might point out, that while
sorting slides you usually throw
40 % away. One day I hope to be
able to present some of them
here at the Internet but
scanning slides is time
consuming and very boring.
Another of my hobbies had been
different Asian sport like
jiujutsu, judo and table tennis.
I have tested once for blue belt
in jiujutsu and travelled the
world around for varies world
championship veteran table
tennis competitions. But in lack
of ball control I could never
win anything important. Still I
sometimes wonder with my
aggressive offensive way to
play, what might have become of
me if I had started as a child
instead of when I was over 30
years old. Unfortunately
children’s possible talents
were not taken care of then as
they are now.
In
1975 I had a wonderful little
boy,
Christopher. When he was 8
his father had a classical 40
year old crisis and left us
after having lived with me for
17 years. When Christopher was
11 the divorce started to show
negative side effects. To day we
all keep our fingers crossed.
As early as when I was 20 years
old my interest for computers
started. I sneaked into our
technical high schools’
lectures.
On the road until today I have
studied 2 programming languages
and attended one technical
computer course. But I do not
remember much from this and I am
not very technical when using my
computer. I mostly make
homepages focusing on beauty
something I think there is far
to little of on the Internet
being dominated by technical
freaks with or users with no
sense whatsoever for neither
technique or layout!
In Swedish
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